Showing posts with label Seleste deLaney. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Seleste deLaney. Show all posts

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Family Matters…So Does Cancer

by Seleste deLaney
  
For most people, beyond the trappings—religious or secular—the holidays mean one very important thing: family. Today I want to talk about one family member in particular. You see, a lot of my family is supportive of my writing career…in concept. When it comes to mentioning my books to their friends or sometimes even buying themselves, they just don’t. And that’s okay. I mean, I don’t go around pimping what they do either, so it’s fair enough. But my sister Kim has been with me from the beginning.

She read the first novel I ever wrote (and subsequently shelved), and has read everything I’ve put out since then. She’s pimped me out to friends and coworkers. And she’s been a supporter of a few other members of my Decadent family as well. Like I said in the dedication of The Ghost of Vampire Present, she’s my number one cheerleader.

But it might not have been that way.

Before I ever wrote that first novel (back in November 1998), Kim was diagnosed with stage II breast cancer. For those of you who don’t know, cancer is divided into four stages, with I being the least invasive, IV the most. Hers hadn’t spread to other areas of her body yet, but over half her lymph nodes were also involved. She was 35 and “too young” to have cancer according to her first doctor. Radiation, two cycles of chemotherapy, a mastectomy, and a whole lot of pain meant she got to stay with us.

But without those treatments, her daughter wouldn’t have a mom, my mom wouldn’t have a daughter, I wouldn’t have a sister, and she never would have been able to see me realize my dream of being a published author. She would never have been able to be that cheerleader.

Needless to say, when Decadent asked for volunteers for the Read for a Cure program (instead of assigning it as they had been), I jumped at the opportunity. When they told me they’d chosen my novella, The Ghost ofVampire Present, as December’s Read for a Cure book, I almost cried. No one at Decadent knew the story behind the dedication or that my sister had cancer (at least not as far as I know), but given that I volunteered under whichever name they preferred, it seemed destiny for them to choose this book.

This holiday season, whatever your faith and no matter how much or how little you can afford to do, hold your family close and tell them you love them. I was blessed with a large family who drives me absolutely bonkers most of the time, but I don’t ever want to have to imagine life without one of my siblings again.

And if you can find it within your means to purchase a copy of The Ghost of Vampire Present in December (not yet…still a couple days), know that all publisher proceeds will go to the American Cancer Society to help fund research to keep one more parent, sibling, or child alive. As for me, for every copy sold in December, I’ll be donating fifty cents to Kim’s Relay for Life team as well because the cause matters, and so does she.

I’m supposed to do a giveaway with this post, so I’m offering a digital copy of Of Course I Try, the short story that comes before The Ghost of Vampire Present

**In addition, I’m putting together a little vampire care package to send to the winner. To enter, I’d like you to tell me what charity you are most dedicated to and (if you want) why. And I urge you to give to that charity this holiday season as well**

Happy holidays and blessed be. 

Sunday, December 12, 2010

My Favorite Things


by Seleste deLaney


I was sitting here, trying to get in the holiday spirit so I could write this post because I had nothing for a topic. Tunes were playing, tree was lit, hot cocoa in hand…still nothing. Then it hit me, I was living my holiday post.

You see, I love the holidays, but not entirely in the same way as other people. Sure, I love the lights and the tunes. But truth is an author friend of mine mentioned a black Christmas tree a while back, and I covet one. I went so far as to consider painting one, but I didn’t want the mess. I found a small one at Target though, and if I can’t get a full size, I will be buying it. Why? Because it’s just so very me. And music? I collect holiday music, but most of my favorites are less about nostalgia and more about energy. I just finished listening to “All I Want for Christmas Is a Real Good Tan” and I’ve moved on to “Santa Looked a Lot Like Daddy”. Hoping “Let’s Be Naughty (and Save Santa the Trip)” is next.

Then there are all the holiday movies. I’m still a sucker for the classic Claymation cartoons. We’ll do a viewing of Rudolph, Frosty, etc, and I hope snow will be falling outside our window at the time. But the movie I look forward to every holiday season? Die Hard. A tale of lost love, redemption, and lots of explosions. What? You expected It’s a Wonderful Life? My second favorite holiday movie, though one I haven’t watched in ages, is Trading Places. Every time I think about Akroyd eating the fish through his Santa beard I have a good chuckle. And there’s always room for a little Bad Santa, just because Billy Bob Thornton is awesome.

Sure. I bake cookies and make chocolates and send cards. Though this year, some of my cards feature vampires, and I’m still debating using the big naked woman chocolate mold and sending it to a random guy friend. We do a lot of the traditional stuff, just in our own warped way.

Come on, when you have a kid who tries to take out the priest on Christmas Eve with his Power Ranger stealth ninja skills, do you really expect things to be normal?

One lucky reader will receive a copy of my holiday release The Ghost of Vampire Present and an “I ♥ Smexy Max” t-shirt. What I want to know is what is your favorite not-quite-traditional part of the holidays? Leave your email in your comment so I can let you know you've won!

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